You were never “too much.”
You Are Not Too Much is a tender,
empowering reminder that the right
people will never ask you to shrink, silence, or dim yourself to be loved.

How many times have you been told you were too much?
Too loud. Too sensitive. Too intense. Too emotional.

So you learned to hold back. To tone yourself down. To fit neatly into the spaces they gave you—always afraid that your fullness would cost you love.

But the truth is, you were never too much. They were simply not enough to hold you.

You Are Not Too Much is Luma Rae Kai’s heartfelt manifesto for the ones who’ve been shamed for their depth, passion, or sensitivity. With fierce honesty and lyrical warmth, she invites you to reclaim your space, your voice, and your unapologetic self.

Inside, you’ll discover:

• Why being told you’re “too much” is never about you

• The hidden cost of shrinking for approval

• How to find people who honor your fullness instead of fearing it

This isn’t about changing yourself.
It’s about remembering: the right people will never ask you to be less.