Why do you crave their approval so badly?
Why Do I Seek Validation? is a raw, compassionate guide to untangling people-pleasing and reclaiming your worth from everyone else’s opinions.

You know the feeling—checking their reaction, chasing their praise, waiting for someone else’s approval before you believe you’re enough. It feels good for a moment, but it never lasts.

So why do we keep chasing it?

Why Do I Seek Validation? is Luma Rae Kai’s intimate exploration of the need to be chosen, approved, and affirmed by others. With her confessional, lyrical voice, she breaks down the trap of people-pleasing and shows how to build worth that isn’t dependent on outside applause.

💫 Inside You’ll Discover:

• Why validation feels addictive but leaves you empty

• How childhood patterns and old wounds fuel the craving

• The difference between healthy encouragement and dependency

• Tools to root your worth in yourself instead of their opinion

This isn’t about never wanting affirmation.
It’s about learning you don’t need it to survive.
Because you were always enough—even before they clapped.