You are more than the love you lost.
Who you are without them is still whole, still worthy, still you.

Who You Are Without Them is a raw, healing companion for the days when heartbreak makes you forget your own reflection. It’s not just about letting go of a relationship—it’s about remembering the person who existed long before it, and the one who’s still here now.

With Luma Rae Kai’s confessional, lyrical tenderness, this book walks you through the ache of absence and into the strength of self-return. Each chapter is both balm and mirror, reminding you that love didn’t create your worth—and losing it can’t erase it.

💫 What’s Inside

• When Love Becomes Identity — untangling who you are from who they were.
• The Ache of Empty Space — learning to sit with loneliness without being consumed.
• Reclaiming the Forgotten Self — remembering the passions, dreams, and voice that are yours alone.
• Life After Letting Go — walking forward without needing to look back.

🪄 Who This Is For

• Anyone grieving a breakup, divorce, or love that didn’t last.
• Readers who feel like they lost themselves while trying to keep someone else.
• Those ready to heal, rebuild, and remember who they are—without apology.

You are not defined by who left.
You are defined by the strength of who remains: you.