About This Book
The Other Woman Was Me is Luma Rae Kai’s unflinching account of being “the other” — the stolen moments, the quiet guilt, the excuses, and the ache of waiting for someone who would never truly arrive.
But beneath the heartbreak lies a deeper truth: the betrayal wasn’t only his. It was hers — against herself.
Through chapters like He Said “She Doesn’t Understand Me”, Every Holiday Hurt, and He Didn’t Break Me — I Broke the Pattern, this book takes readers into the hidden cost of misplaced love and the strength it takes to break free.
This isn’t his story. It’s hers. And it’s about the day she finally came home to herself.
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This Book Is For You If…
- You’ve loved someone in secret or in silence
- You waited for promises that never became action
- You’ve made excuses for behavior that hurt you
- You’re tired of romanticizing pain
- You’re ready to stop disappearing for love
What You’ll Find Inside
- The emotional patterns that keep women stuck in hidden love
- The lies we tell ourselves to survive longing
- Why being “chosen” was never the real goal
- How self-betrayal slowly replaces self-trust
- The moment the cycle breaks — and what comes after
Part of This Shelf
Hidden Love & Self-Reckoning — for the women who stopped lying to themselves.
The Other Woman Was Me
Why Do I Always Cheat?
Your Love Was a Lesson
You don’t need closure from him. You need honesty with yourself.







